Relationship Issues
The relationships that matter most can also be the hardest to get right — and old patterns of thinking often make it harder than it needs to be.
How it shows up
Relationship struggles can show up with a partner, family member, friend, or colleague — and everyone runs into them at some point. Common patterns include:
- Uncertainty about how or where to meet the right partner
- Facing divorce, separation, or feeling trapped in a relationship
- Struggling with trust after infidelity
- Frustration with poor communication or a disconnected physical relationship
- Wanting to improve or deepen a relationship that’s already working
Left unaddressed, these issues tend to build up over time rather than resolve on their own, especially when communication breaks down. Dating itself has also changed a lot, and coming out of a long relationship can leave people struggling to communicate and prone to negative, assuming thoughts about what comes next.
How hypnotherapy helps
Hypnotherapy can’t fix another person or force a relationship to work, but it can help you show up differently within one. Pattie uses hypnotherapy to help clients gain new perspective on old conflicts, revisit painful memories in a less charged way, build genuine confidence, and learn to relax enough to communicate openly instead of defensively. A lot of this comes down to opening communication with your own subconscious first, so it’s easier to open it with someone else.
This work depends on your honest willingness to look at your own patterns, not just the other person’s — real change takes desire and effort on your part.
What a session looks like
Every new client starts with a free 20-minute consultation. Sessions with Pattie are $150 and available at her Scottsdale office or by Zoom.
Common questions
Can this help even if my partner won’t come to sessions? Yes — this work focuses on your own patterns and responses, which can shift a relationship dynamic even if only one person is doing the work.
Is this couples counseling? No, this is individual hypnotherapy focused on your own mindset and communication, not joint counseling sessions.
What if I’m not sure whether to stay in the relationship? That uncertainty itself is a common starting point — the consultation is a good place to talk through what’s driving it.
Your first session
Free consultation
A free 20-minute call or booked online — we talk through what you want to change.
A plan built for you
$150 per session, in the Scottsdale office or by Zoom — personalized to your goals.
Reinforce & practice
Most clients feel a shift within their first few sessions, then we build on it.
Start with a free 20-minute conversation.
No pressure, no obligation — just a plan built around what you want to change.